Writing wedding vows is one of the most meaningful parts of preparing for marriage. In this reflective essay, Sasha explores love not as a simple yes or no, but as a layered experience built on being in love, loving deeply, and genuinely liking your partner. Drawing on personal marriage insights, literature, and lived experience, this piece offers thoughtful guidance for couples crafting heartfelt vows that reflect who they are and the life they are choosing together. Ideal reading for couples planning a wedding ceremony rooted in authenticity, intention, and lasting connection.