WEDDING PLANNING
THOUGHTFUL PLANNING
FOR UNFORGETTABLE WEDDINGS
Full-service wedding planning for couples who want a seamless, meaningful celebration without the stress.
MORE THAN A WEDDING PLAN
A BESPOKE EXPERIENCE
Planning a wedding involves hundreds of decisions, countless moving parts, and no shortage of unsolicited opinions.
We bring clarity to the complexities, anticipate the details you may not have considered, and guide the process with thoughtful organization and a steady hand. All without allowing wedding planning to become your second full-time job.
The vision and decisions remain yours. Our responsibility is to bring them to life.
FULL SERVICE PLANNING
FROM FIRST IDEAS TO FINAL DETAILS
⚜️ VISION & DESIGN
We translate your ideas into a cohesive celebration, from the overall aesthetic to the smallest visual details.
⚜️ PLANNING & LOGISTICS
Budgets, venues, vendors, timelines, and the hundreds of decisions that connect them. We keep everything moving.
⚜️ EXECUTION & COORDINATION
We oversee the moving parts, manage the professionals, and bring the plans to life on your wedding day.
STARTS AT $4,999
REAL COUPLES
TEN OUT OF TEN
My wife Tabby and I are the kind of people who feel like we're capable of doing just about anything so having a wedding planner didn't even cross our mind at first. And we were smugly enjoying our choice until about six months out...when the wedding suddenly felt uncomfortably close, so we stowed our pride and started looking for help.
I can't describe how lucky we were to find Silk & Shadows: not only did Ava and Sasha execute flawlessly, they understood that we wanted something a little weird and a little subversive, and they were right there with us.
They were funny, kind, efficient, and seemed to really care that this once-in-a-lifetime experience played out exactly how we envisioned. It almost felt like our wedding was being handled with assurance by our best friends. They rolled with all of our twisted ideas and sick jokes, and never made things weird or uncomfortable.
And let me tell you: they got things done. There's a lot that goes into a wedding, and they had all the details on lock. They never left us hanging or confused, and they treated everyone with courtesy and respect.
All of the professionals that made our wedding great -- the DJ, the caterers, the photographer, the venue staff -- did a fine job. But Ava and Sasha felt like part of the wedding party itself, and I think that made all the difference.
Ten out of ten, no notes.
- Ethan & Tabby
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
COMMON QUESTIONS
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Our full-service planning covers the entire journey, from developing your wedding vision to managing the celebration itself. We create your personalized planning roadmap, manage budgets and deadlines, research and book vendors, review contracts, and coordinate logistics. On your wedding day, we take charge of vendor communication, setup, timelines, ceremony cues, and reception coordination, so you can enjoy the celebration without worrying about what's happening behind the scenes.
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Ideally, before you start making major decisions. Having a planner involved from the beginning can save you time, prevent expensive mistakes, and help you make informed choices about your venue, vendors, and budget. That said, there's no universal timeline. We can also step in when planning is already underway.
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Absolutely. You don't need to start from scratch. We'll review what you've already arranged, identify what's still outstanding, and build a plan around your existing commitments. Whether you've booked your venue and a few vendors or have several pieces already in place, we'll work with what you've accomplished.
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It's your wedding, and the decisions are always yours. Our job is to research options, offer professional recommendations, explain the trade-offs, and handle the work involved in making your choices happen. You'll approve the important decisions, including vendors, contracts, design direction, and expenses.
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As involved as you'd like to be. Some couples enjoy reviewing every option and participating in the creative process, while others prefer to make key decisions and leave the research and logistics to us. We'll establish a comfortable working rhythm together, so you stay informed without feeling like wedding planning has become a second job.
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Your Love Storyboard is a personalized online planning dashboard where we organize your wedding information in one accessible place. It brings together important dates, tasks, planning milestones, progress updates, and other details relevant to your wedding. You'll have access throughout our work together, so you can check what's happening and what's coming next without searching through endless emails.
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We're happy to work with vendors you've already chosen. We also have relationships with talented wedding professionals throughout Oregon and Washington and can recommend options based on your style, priorities, and budget. Our recommendations are just that: recommendations. You always have the final say.
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Yes. We'll help establish a realistic budget, allocate funds across different categories, track expenses, and monitor upcoming payment deadlines. We'll also help you understand how individual decisions affect the overall budget. You'll remain responsible for approving expenses and making payments directly to your vendors.
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Yes! Wedding-day coordination is included in our full-service planning package. After months of planning and preparation, we're there to bring everything together. We manage the timeline, direct vendors, oversee setup, coordinate the ceremony and reception, and supervise the final breakdown. You'll have the same team guiding you from our first planning meeting through the end of your wedding day.
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Yes! We're based in the Portland area and work with couples throughout Oregon and Washington, including coastal weddings and celebrations outside the metro area. Travel expenses may apply depending on your wedding location and the number of on-site visits required.
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We stay connected through email, scheduled meetings, and your Love Storyboard. You'll be able to follow planning progress online, while we'll reach out when decisions, approvals, or additional information are needed. We'll establish a communication schedule that fits your wedding timeline and the stage of planning we're working on.
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Our $4,999 rate applies to weddings with up to 150 guests at venues within one hour of Portland. Larger weddings require additional planning and coordination, while more distant locations involve extra travel. If your wedding falls within our base package, that's the price you'll pay for our services. Otherwise, we'll provide a personalized quote based on your guest count and location, with all additional costs explained upfront.